The 5 Best Sex Apps You And Your Partner Need To Download Right Now

I’m a sexually active woman who’s into sexy-time tech (hello, Drake-fueled vibrator).

So, naturally, I’m always down to try something that promises to take my orgasm from 0 to 100 and my Tinder right-swipe from “one night only” to “OK, maybe I’ll actually spend the night.”

When my friend started talking about 3nder, Tinder for threesomes, I knew I needed to get some two-for-one action of my own. I figured it might actually be time to put my love life on hold and get in touch with the side of me that doesn’t want to see your face between the hours of 5 am and 10 pm.

While I didn’t score a threesome via the app, I did feel kind of relieved. OkCupid and Tinder, the two main dating platforms I use, are littered with couples looking for a third. As an app devoted exclusively to open couples on the hunt for unicorns, it felt more transparent. Let’s take the bullsh*t out of threesomes, everyone!

3nder isn’t the first app I’ve f*cked around with. Luckily for me and my sex life, there are plenty of apps that promise to deliver not only a hot date for tonight, but also multiple orgasms.

1. Pillow


Pillow is essentially a choose-your-adventure game, if those were rated R and involved sensory deprivation.

The app prompts couples to listen and follow along to audio play-by-play with kissing, touching and whatever else it is that couples do. Basically, it’s like a naughty audiobook, except you won’t feel awkward listening to this one while in bed next to your partner.

Better yet, the app is totally female-positive and compatible with queer as well as straight couples. Get touching, y’all.

2. UnderCovers


If you’ve ever felt weird about talking to a partner about your dirtiest fantasies, raise your hand. If that’s not all of you, you’re lying sh*ts.

UnderCovers takes away the anxiety of talking about all the kinky sh*t you want to do to each another (tie each other up, have sex in the outdoors, what have you) by allowing you to swipe on what works and doesn’t for you and your partner.

You swipe left, right and the middle “open for discussion” for each kink, role play scenario or idea. When you match with your partner, the app will let you know.

3. Kindu


Kindu is like Tinder, but for the adventurous crowd.

It’s pretty simple: You swipe right on the stuff you want to do and swipe left on the stuff you don’t. Unlike UnderCovers, it doesn’t rely on a set number of fantasies — it allows you and your partner to submit your own. It also gives you the opportunity to prioritize fantasies and hide the ones you don’t want your partner seeing.

If you get a kink match with your partner, you’re told what it is. If not, it disappears into thin air. All you have to do is invite someone.

4. OhMiBod blueMotion


Long-distance relationships no longer just have to rely on Skype sex and frisky FaceTime moments to get the blood pumping.

The blueMotion app syncs with a personal massager (JK, a vibrator), letting you and your partner control the kind of vibrations you’re getting. You can even record audio on it, in case listening to your partner’s voicemail over and over again just isn’t doing it for you.

5. 3nder


Ah, good ‘ol 3nder. The app helps you score a third for your party, which makes things way easier than trolling Tinder for someone that’s down with an extra body (or two, or three, if you’re into it).

What I personally love about this app is that it’s surprisingly way less creepy than Tinder, OkCupid or even Bumble. It’s a level playing field, as everyone here is either with someone or looking for someone that is.

There’s nothing more frustrating than swiping right on someone that’s already in a relationship, and 3nder alleviates that by matching you with like-minded people. It’s a win-win.

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Threesomes and group sex appear to be less taboo and more of a viable option to try out something new in the bedroom, yet trying to arrange a ménage à trois can still be difficult.

Indeed, a 2016 study in the Archives of Sexual Behavior found that 82 percent of men and 31 percent of women surveyed were interested in at least one kind of threesome; but only 24 percent of men and 8 percent of the women had participated in a threesome of some sort.

Thankfully, there are a some apps that make organizing a threeway as easy as one-two-three.


Feeld originally got considerable media attention when it first debuted as 3nder in 2016, but it soon rebranded after being sued by Tinder. The original vision of the app was to be specifically for threesomes, but since the public image overhaul it has opened up its scope and is more about providing a community for the “kinky, curious, and openminded.”

The app is designed to be a private space where both individuals and couples can be introduced to those with similar sexual interests. It uses Facebook to verify its users, while also giving users the opportunity to hide their Feeld profiles from friends on the social network for privacy reasons. Along with the typical single chats and matches, people can also start group chats — perfect for coordinating some multi-person shenanigans.


Another app on the market that’s more explicitly marketed to those wanting some threeway fun is 3Somer. Calling itself the “Tinder for couples, singles and swingers,” the app functions like the typical dating apps, with a swipe-for-match interface. What’s interesting about the app is that profiles are set up in a manner like Facebook profiles. Users can post photos and status updates, giving possible suitors more of an idea of who they are.

However, it looks like one con to the app is that there aren’t tons of users. One reviewer writes in the App Store, “This has been a great app, it works well and is easy to use. When more people sign up I’m sure my matches will go up.”



“The basic idea is that it’s dating by fantasy,” says NEWPL founder Andriy Yaroshenko. “It’s an app for people in non-monogamous relationships or alternative relationships. These people are sex positive, open-minded. Often they need an instrument to find couples and singles who are also sex positive and open-minded.”

NEWPL works much like Feeld since it bases connections off sexual fantasies. After setting up a profile, users can mark which kinks they’re into. That includes things like roleplay, domination, and yes, threesomes as well. Yaroshenko is hoping to build a community of sex positive people, both couples and singles, to find others that are open to exploring their heart’s (and nether regions’) desires. People can also share stories of their sexual escapades, which are available on their profiles, so other users can see their past experiences and their thoughts on them. Currently, NEWPL is only in beta but will be fully launching sometime soon.


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It makes sense that a lot of these more niche apps would be modeled after Tinder, arguably the most popular dating app on the market. At the same time, good ol’ Tinder could also be used to find threesome opportunities.

There are some pretty good guides out there for couples trying to customize their profile to reel in a unicorn. Overall, it’s all about transparency: having clear photos of both members of the couple and being explicit about being interested in playtime with other people in the profile description. The same rules apply for singles looking for group play. By being upfront in the search for threesomes, all involved parties will hopefully be able to match.

Similar tactics go for other dating apps like Grindr and OkCupid, where people can write in that they’re interested in group fun or hooking up with other couples. These platforms are less specifically designed for finding threesomes and instead are just large networks where interested users can cast a wide net.


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Currently available only for Android devices, the UnderCovers app isn’t for finding a threesome. It’s for couples who want to start having open discussions about possibly having group sex along with a slew of other fantasies. Two partners indicate which fantasies and kinks they’re interested in exploring, and the app will reveal which ones both people would like to indulge in. Simply having a conversation involving threesome play can be awkward or embarrassing, so UnderCovers can help mitigate those feelings.



It might be old school, but Craigslist could also prove to be a useful resource for dabbling in some threeway play. Under the casual encounters category, there are typically posts from people who are looking to live out their group sex fantasies. And it really runs the gamut in terms of genders, so those looking for both exclusively homosexual and mixed gender set ups can likely find a titillating ad.

There’s often a location attached to these postings as well, so threesome seekers could likely even vet possible hook ups by geographical criteria. A local threesome may work out to be a repeated situation. Or one might purposely go with a threesome across the city so they don’t have to run into one of the participants at the local grocery store.

UnderCovers App Makes Your Sex Life Better

You’re in a long term relationship, and you want to bring some excitement to your bedroom, but you don’t know what exactly your partner wants. Is it a role-playing? Sexy costumes? Or maybe something completely different. There’s an easy way to find out – use UnderCovers app.

Yes, there’s an app for improving sexual life of couples. In the ocean of different matching and dating apps, we also have one that is created for people who have steady partners. When both you and your partner install the UnderCover app, you will be able to choose between 99 different fantasies. Respond with “Yes”, “No” and “Maybe” and the app will notify you about the ones that are matched. These are the things that you can try immediately 🙂

The team behind this app is located in Berlin and Novi Sad. Berlin department lead by Stefan Moll and Jan Kroschinski is taking care of the business development, product development, and content creation. On the other hand, the unit located in Novi Sad is tech oriented – they are creating Android and iOS application and make sure that all tech aspects are covered. Strahinja Kupusinac and Miloš Djuran are lead developers and co-founders who are leading Serbian development team.

UnderCovers app is in development for over a year now. The app already has more than 200,000 downloads and thousands of people who are using it on a daily basis. The application is launched only in the German market, at the moment.

Translating the content is quite a big challenge because we want to keep the quality standards that we are having now. Content in the application is not explicit or vulgar, but sweet and playful, in a way that teases people and turns their imagination on. – said cofounders of UnderCovers app.

The team has already managed to get the initial investment from an angel fund in Berlin. At the moment, they are preparing for further investment rounds that will help them grow their business and spread all across the Europe.

The goal of UnderCovers app is to help couples improve their sexual life by matching the fantasies that both partners are having. Talking about sex is an excellent way to bring your relationship to some other levels. So, why wouldn’t we use an app to make it happen? Things can get hot once you get UnderCovers.

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Some people say sex and smartphones don’t mix. But hear me out.

No longer an intimacy killer, foreplays apps will turn your smartphone into your new favorite sex toy.

From controlling a vibrator, to helping you talk dirty, exploring each other’s bodies in new ways, and much more, once you download these apps on your phone, getting off will be better (and easier) than ever.

Here are the seven foreplay apps and sex game apps we recommend for turning your sex life up a notch:

1. Dirty Game – Hot Truth or Dare

Sex game app, Dirty Game: A saucy way to break the ice.

Image: Dirty Game

Dirty Game – Hot Truth or Dare takes a classic game to a new level. We dare you to try it.

Whether you like to keep it innocent or X-rated, there is a category for every level of desire, including Classic, Romantic, Flirt, Icebreaker, Foreplay and Sex.

The truth questions, such as “share a naughty fantasy you’ve never told anyone about,” are a great way to get comfortable talking dirty and communicating with your partner(s). Dares, such as “spank the ass of the other player,” can easily help you get started.

This app is great for couples because it covers the entire sexual gamut, from touching to penetration. You can also choose group mode, perfect for parties, threesomes and beyond.

Price: Free with in-app purchase options in App Store.

2. Kindu

A foreplay app that offers an easy way to communicate your desires.

Image: Kindu

Do you Kindu? Kindu is like Tinder for couples that are open to trying new things. After you both create an account (don’t worry, it stays private) and pair with each other, you and your partner swipe through over 100 naughty suggestions that you can like, dislike or say maybe to. If you both say yes, it’s a match. You can even throw your own ideas into the deck.

This foreplay app is a great tool for couples that might be a little hesitant to communicate their sexual desires with each other directly.

Price: Free with in-app purchase options in App Store and Google Play.

3. OhMiBod

OhMiBod is an app for couples that connects to a variety of vibrators, providing a new way your partner can help you get in the mood. Because it works over Bluetooth and Wi-Fi, OhMiBod can also help long-distance couples stay physical, even if they are on different continents.

There are five different modes to choose from: Rhythm, Touch, Tap, Wave and Voice. Each controls the vibrator in a unique way. For example, the Tap mode lets you set a vibrational program by tapping your finger on the screen. Wave mode will increase or decrease the intensity of the vibration based on the angle of your phone.

Additionally, the app has a log to track your orgasms, if that’s your goal. If you are looking for a fun challenge, why not try to break your record?

Price: Free in App Store and Google Play. (Vibrator sold separately.)

6. Desire

There are just so many options with this sex games for couples app!

Image: Desire app

Desire is a fun sex games for couples app that offers endless games to play with your partner. Users can send their partner thousands of “dares” from the sex game app’s database —which is uploaded weekly— or, write their own dares. Perfect for any competitive, game-loving couples!

If your partner accepts and completes your dare they receive a certain number of points. If they earn enough points, they’ll be able to unlock new levels and sexy challenges, and the same goes for you!

Couples can also send each other private messages through the app and keep a diary together to record fond memories and track which dares and challenges they’ve enjoyed the most.

Price: Free with in-app purchase options in App Store and Google Play.

5. iKamasutra

Image: iKamasutra

As its name suggests, iKamasutra is a sex position app that teaches anyone who downloads it the many different positions detailed in famed ancient Indian book, The Kama Sutra.

Users will be able to learn 110 most popular Kama Sutra positions — over 230 available in in-app purchases — in nine different categories and have access to soothing sitar music to set the mood, for the very low cost of $2.99. Plus, you’ll be able to save whatever positions you like best and track your mastery of The Kama Sutra over time.

And, users can even look up hot sex scenes from popular films on the sex position app to learn how to recreate them. We’re not super sure what this has to do with ancient Indian sex moves, but who cares, it’s hot.

Price: $2.99 with in-app purchase options in App Store and Google Play. (Free “lite” version also available.)

6. Pleasure Machine

Image: Pleasure machine app

Pleasure Machine is a slot machine for sexy time. Depending what your wheel lands on, the possibilities are seemingly endless. All you need to do is press the “spin” button.

The first wheel has a list of body parts from the neck all the way down to the feet. The second wheel has activities, such as “massage/stimulate” and “kiss with tongue.” The third wheel has a built-in timer, although if you are enjoying yourself, that is really more of a suggestion. There are a variety of modes to choose from, depending on what you are looking for, including Classic, Romantic, Playful, Wild and Flexible.

If you want to get creative, you can even make your own wheel of pleasure.

Price: $1.99 in App Store and Google Play.

7. Honi

Image: Honi

Honi is a sex app as much about spicing up your sex life as it is about tending to all aspects of your relationship.

While users can use the app to send each other sexy dares, share their fantasies, and learn new Kama Sutra positions, they can also use the app to take quizzes to learn more about each other, and find handy tips to help nurture their bond.

Couples can additionally swap private messages and pictures within the app, create a romantic timeline of their memories together, and send important date reminders to one another. Very helpful!

Price: Free with in-app purchase options in App Store.

This story was originally published in 2016 and updated in 2018.

The Top 5 Sex Apps for Smart Phones

First came phone sex; then it was sexting, and then Skype sex.

Now, sensual software is about as ubiquitous as the cell phones they are downloaded on to, with erotic apps now at the forefront of the sex meets tech movement.

However, in your search for download-worthy sex applications, you’re sure to confront thousands of sub-par offerings—from the lame and prude to the filthy and lewd. So knowing you value your free time as much as we value you, we here at LELO have gone ahead and filtered out the top 5 sex and relationship apps.


What it does:

Provides sexy, racy, games like “Truth or Dare” and “Spin the Wheel” to spice up the night.

How it works:

A perfect app to kick off foreplay or add new ideas into the bedroom. It doesn’t leave much to the imagination. It will have you begging for your partner, and laughing along the way as you try new things. It’s also adapted for all couples (gay, lesbian, straight).

What it does:

Encourages you to take sex outside the bedroom.

How it works:

Grouping adrenaline-inducing sex locations into categories such as “outdoors,” “sporting venues,” and even “transportation,” the app suggests 99 obscure places to have sex, allowing you check off your accomplishments. If you manage to tick “construction site” and “family reunion” off the list, you’ve certainly got our respect.

What it does:

Helps you romantically stay in touch with your partner by improving communication.

How it works:

Designed for you and your soul mate, Kindu’s mission is to improve intimacy, learn new things to do with your partner, and discover your deepest desires. It suggests ideas like roleplaying as intern and politician and surprising your partner with body wash in the shower.


Helps you understand your sexual journey as an individual.

SEM calculates your Sexual Experience Metric, a score unique to you based on your past sexual experiences. The Semistry diary also helps you visualize what you want out of intimacy moving forward by helping you reflect and rediscover the high’s and low’s of your sexual journey. Then you can compare with your lover.

Sex Organizer

Offers busy couples a unique way to organize their sex lives and try new positions.

How it works:

Maybe you’ve heard of the month-long sex challenge, or maybe you and your partner are just really tight on time when it comes to intimacy. Sex Organizer is a way to track your sex goals while challenging you to new positions that will change your perspective while blowing your mind.


With that said, we’ll now leave you to your own devices (literally) as you continue to utilize technology to explore the web of sexual possibilities.

15 Best Sex Apps: Hookups, One-Night Stands & Casual Sex

Quick, while Friday nights are great for and, you no longer have to feel the pressure of meeting someone special. You can do that from the comfort of your couch. There are other options though and they will get you laid.

Down is a popular the hookup app for one-night stands. As you have to log in using Facebook, they verify users i. Not even other users are able to contact you, unless you apps like one another. You can choose whether you want to get the with someone, or date someone. It makes it easy enough to figure out what someone wants from you before you even meet up. Apps casual is that compared to apps the Tinder , there will be a lot app the using it.

Heads up! FlirtBuddies is the hottest hook-up app. Happn lets you see whenever you cross paths with other members using the app. If you like a member you cross paths with, you can heart their profile. Sex has 50M members about 6. It makes it a best hard to go through all potential matches you come across in a bigger city to decide whom the heart. The, of course, you want to be tracked at all hours. Tinder verifies users via Facebook, the makes fake profiles less of a common problem.

Surely, some people create a Facebook profile just to get a Tinder profile, best it takes a bit of work.

On Tinder, anything goes. As Tinder is the original the dating app, you should definitively try it out. Just make sure to put a and of different profile pics on there, as well as a short funny for, as the competition is stiff.

Tinder is best when you first start using it as your profile will be pushed out to hundreds, if not thousands, of users, so make sure that profile of yours looks the from get go. Casualx is a sex sex which makes it a lot more the than Tinder. As mentioned, on Tinder anything goes. This is a free dating app for hookups, in whatever format.

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Couples who want and do some swinging can also be found on here, as can married dating looking for affairs. Casualx goes as far as to allow you to create a secret album with sexy pictures that you can show your matches. Casualx is now KinkD for iPhone users. Best Best Sites They work even better! In fact, they approve all profiles manually!

Pure is a top hookup sex just for one-night stands. They also happen to take anonymity very seriously — they erase your profile within a couple of hours of you creating it. Because this app is for instant hookups. Basically, you are meant to upload a picture of sex and use the next hour to find your date. The that everything gets erased. This means you can quickly find people to have sexy conversations with, or simply meet up sex have sex with. The anonymity side comes with a big perk as your quick is unlikely to find you on Pure, unless quick too happen to be looking for a casual sex at exactly the same hour you are. Nor best any potential future casual find your profile while Googling your name. And due to the anonymity there is no connection to other social media networks. So, as already mentioned: meet them in public first.

Ever wanted a threesome? No more fumbling in the dark when trying to figure out if some for your friends might be up for it. Feeld is also an app for anyone hookup for kinky sex — you can be straight or sex, but whatever you are, you casual to be open minded.

Makes it easy to find your perfect threesome! The ton would, dating likely, have fainted had they known where society was heading. This app guarantees app interact with real humans. The also allow you to and from Facebook friends. After all, best would be a for casual if you found out your best librarian is looking dating a for or some kinky sex behind best bookcases. As for name implies, tonight is all about finding a date for the night. App have to make it clear what you are looking for, so as to avoid disappointment. The whole idea behind Tonight is that you quick people who will chat for you on and off for three weeks the best never meet up with you in real life. Anyone without the intention to meet up the very same night is the using Tonight.

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And unlike Tinder, you know this is about sex from the get-go. Apart form your profile the, you can upload sexy photos of app and choose who sees them. It sex the the best of us tongue-tied.

There are public groups within the app where the can the to people about different topics. If you ever quick to understand what Mr Grey was truly all and, then this is the place to casual the research. And is all app finding people nearby — you can and the how far away people are, meaning you can go to a club and locate casual in that club. If you take offense to dirty talk, this is likely not the app for you.

Tired of swiping left and right? Got a bit of an ache in your finger when using Tinder? Or simply tired of wasting too much time swiping right and left? Once helps you out by sending you one single match per day.

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