Here’s a figurative slap in the face that a lot of you need.
The majority of Aussie guys suck at being interesting. Watching footy on the weekends, putting on a punt, and smacking a few schooeys with the lads on a Friday night are not hobbies. How many times have you been hit with this age-old question from a potential love interest:
‘So what do you do for fun?’
And you’ve got nothin’ (outside of Call of Duty and cars). Well with a little help from science and a little help from us, here are five simple hobbies that you can take up right now that women find attractive.
- My husband got involved with a friend – it was great
- My partner finds it a turn on when I meet other men
- None of my colleagues know and neither does my family
- Sex with my partner was amazing because we used to discuss our adventures
- Everything is in the open, without fear or lies
- Is BDSM/Kink a Hobby or a Sexual Orientation?
- Sex: The High-Risk Hobby for Women
- Another reason women aren’t adapting to casual sex:
- 1: Playing an Instrument!
- 2: Staying Fit and Saving Lives
- 3: Hobbies Girls Find Attractive: (Cooking)
- 4: Competitive Sports
- 5: Hobbies Girls Find Attractive: (Travelling)
- 6: Yoga
- 7: Painting and Drawing
- 8: Knowing About the Vehicle
- 9: Knowing Multiple Languages
- 10: Reading Books
- 11: Photography
- 12: Writing a Diary/Blog
- 13: Hobbies Girls Find Attractive: (Gardening)
- 14: Hobbies Girls Find Attractive: (Hiking)
- 15: Hobbies Girls Find Attractive: (Learning Stuff!)
- 16: Hobbies Girls Find Attractive: (Learn Magic!)
Sorry, we’re not talking about your sixth attempt at Harry Potter and The Prisoner of Azkaban or The Four Hour Work Week, even though both of these are literary bangers in their own right. I’m talking about real, classical, and what was once considered absolutely necessary cornerstones of literature. Think Anna Karenina (Leo Tolstoy), The Great Gatsby (F. Scott Fitzgerald), or even Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas (Hunter S. Thompson). Pretty much all the stuff your grade 12 English teacher would have piled on your desk.
What kind of guy is more interesting? The man who can hold his own in a conversation about the 20th century’s most inspiring novels or some loser who can’t talk anything culture-related short of the latest Avengers movie. If you play your cards right (and happen to be on the NYC subway), you could end up on this clearly popular Instagram account.
Often seen as a feminine pursuit, cooking is one of the crafts that women find most attractive in a potential partner. This Reddit post agrees that all adults should at least be able to cook the basics to be even considered as a viable lover. And by cooking for a woman at your place as opposed to taking her out to a ritzy restaurant, you’re saving money and you’re saving the awkward proposal of heading back to yours after you’ve paid the bill. Serve up a bit of pasta, a touch of red wine, right by the candlelight. Muy bien.
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While Cosmopolitan, Huffington Post, and Elite Daily are running around like headless chooks trying to figure out why they have such an unreasonable and undeniable attraction to musicians, you should be wrapping your fingers around the closest instrument like your life depends on it. We’ve all been in that situation – sitting around the campsite and the dude with the rattiest hair and least attention paid to personal hygiene whips out the guitar. Suddenly the adoration and undivided attention of every female is turned to this guy. Do you want to be that guy? You’ll tell your mates no, but you’ll also be going home alone that night, so who’s the real winner?
And it doesn’t even have to be a guitar. Probably steer clear of the big brass instruments if you’re a newbie, but other popular instruments such as the piano are great, classy hobbies to pick up. What’s more is that learning a new instrument will also increase your intelligence, which is also a win in the dating world.
It’s always beneficial to have your ‘thing.’ Plus, you don’t need me to tell you of the benefits of continuous exercise. But sometimes walking around your local mass-franchise gym Snapchatting your Tinder matches won’t cut it as a hobby. Alternatively, joining an F45 or CrossFit box will force you to train alongside others and will give you the slow yet sure satisfaction of improving the skillset required to move your body.
On the other end of the spectrum, a recent study determined that guys whose online dating profiles have a picture of them on the rugby field get the most swipes. Even if it’s not rugby, having a basic first-hand knowledge of the game you watch every weekend is admirable.
Studies show that a man who is altruistic and caring is far more attractive to the opposite sex. Although I don’t advise you doing a good thing for the wrong reason, I do advise you to find your favourite charitable cause and put in the work. This means more than just sending 50c abroad a couple times a month.
You can already assume the biggest winners among the female population. Anything to do with baby animals is a given winner. The classic stereotype of the bronzed lifesaver saving the helpless is also an archetype that won’t be dying quietly anytime soon. Get involved with the RSPCA here, or sign up to become a lifesaver at your local surf club here.
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Sitting in front of your console all day? Spending your free time watching movies by yourself? Well, if you want to attract women at some point, it’s time you make a change there. We have given you lots of ways to tweak your personality in the past, but it’s time we talked about how you can create a lifestyle that women will find attractive. Let me introduce you to some ways to exhibit your masculine personality traits.
Build Your Social Circle
To become successful with women, become successful with people first. You need to assemble a solid group of friends and acquaintances (you can also join a social circle that’s already established, say, at your workplace – but it’s even better if you assemble your own). To be recognized as a fun and interesting person, bring value to others:
1. Get hobbies that include others (dancing, team sports, boardgames)
2. Have fun stories to tell (read our article on storytelling), always be ready to crack a joke
3. Organize parties or gatherings (e.g. beer after work)
It’s very attractive to women if you’re always surrounded by laughing and smiling people, and it’s even more attractive if you’re the one who throws the parties they go to. You’re establishing yourself as a leader that way, and it’s the guy with leadership qualities that women go for.
Pick your friends carefully: you want happy, easy-going, friendly, confident, reasonable people around you – bitter, insecure, negative drama queens or creepy, desperate losers are chick repellent. Your impression on others is in large part determined by your social circle.
Build A Great Home
As a man, you home is a reflection of your lifestyle and ultimately, you.
Even though many guys would be content with having their mattress on the floor, a single couch in the living room with no lights… women see things differently. When you inevitably host a gathering or bring women back to your place, the more your place is in order, the better impression you will make.
Plus, it’s quite easy to accomplish! Spend a day at Ikea browsing for inexpensive home accessories or get inspired by my friend’s home decor website to get your mind running. You only need a few items to really tie a room together and it will go a long way towards making you seem like a guy that really has his act together.
Creativity and ambitions
Everybody is creative deep inside, everybody has passions, ambitions, activities that make them excited and happy. Figure out what yours are, and pursue them: just working 9-5 and then crashing in front of the TV or computer is boring and bleak.
Example:If you play in a band on the side, climb, take photos or create web pages, you signal that you are eager to shape your own reality, take responsibility and follow things through. You are a man with passions and goals, you’re pursuing them and she’ll be excited to share them.
Remember what I said about leading? Your creativity, ambition and pursuit of personal goals communicates that you’re strong and determined – a leader and great caretaker for a woman and her children. It also shows her that you won’t be a burden to her: you’re doing just great on your own, and she has the unique opportunity to join you. You want her in your life, but you don’t need her.
Plus, it gives you lots of nice conversation topics.
Have things going on in your life
This is the logical conclusion from the last part, but it can’t hurt to spell it out again: make sure you get yourself out there and have activities and events going on.
In addition to clubs, go to museums, art galleries, festivals, live gigs, restaurant openings, to the park to play Frisbee, join a theater group, take yoga or dancing classes, or go on a mission to visit every bar in your city and make a map of the most original ones.
The pursuit of health
As you probably know, evolution favors the strong and healthy: it’s always been survival of the fittest, and I think we agree that strong and healthy guys are more likely to attract a woman and pass on their genes.
Women will be into you if you’re strong and healthy.
You should get a bike, go to the gym or swim several times a week to stay in shape and fit. Your body is naturally designed for movement, and if it stays still too much, it will get sick. Your healthy lifestyle will show in the gleam on your cheeks, the sparkle in your eyes and the shape of your body.
I cannot stress the importance of this enough. In addition to a good regular workout, make sure you eat lots of fruit, vegetables, nuts, home-cooked meals, salad, cereal, milk… All the classic healthy food.
Then, you want to get clothes that flatter your body and present it in the best way possible. You know your own body best, you know the sexy and less sexy parts – go get some advice in clothing stores. You also want to walk upright, with your head held high, shoulders back and down: body language that shows strength.
One last thing, stop complaining!
Stop talking about your little itches, illness or other health issues. When people ask you how you are, smile at them and say: “well great, thank you!” So many people will only grunt in response or tell you to not even ask. Don’t be like that.
Creating an attractive lifestyle may take some time, but you’ll reap the rewards: it won’t just make women like you more, but also contribute to your happiness as a man. All the attributes introduced in this article are inherently masculine – they’re in your nature, and they’re attractive to women.
Imagine this: your partner is sleeping with another woman or man, and you know about it. In fact, you’re also going on dates with other people – and you both talk openly about it.
Welcome to the world of open relationships, a topic that has been discussed this week with ongoing reports about a celebrity threesome, and TV personality Saira Khan saying she has given her husband permission to sleep with other women (something he later denied).
So, what’s it like to not be exclusive? Here, five people talk about why being in an open relationship works for them.
My husband got involved with a friend – it was great
My husband and I met when we were very young, and after being together for a while we realised we wanted to try different things sexually. I had always been attracted to other men and wanted to experience sex with a woman.
Then when I was travelling I had an affair. As soon as I came home I told my husband and we decided to have an open relationship. He went on to find a lover. Then we had a threesome with the man I had slept with and from then on decided to have a completely open relationship (an arrangement that’s been in place now for 10 years). We both travel a lot for work, so we tend to meet lovers while we are away. We have also gone to swinger clubs together.
This openness has made our connection even deeper and our relationship more committed. We can talk to each other openly about it and our relationship has grown as a result. However not everyone understands it, so we don’t tell a lot of friends about our arrangement.
We have no specific rules but we do expect to know everything that is going on with each other both physically and emotionally. Communication is vital.
Recently I met a man whom I became very emotionally attached to, and this was very difficult for all of us. The man can tolerate my husband but hates the idea of me having sex with anyone else. He is married and has never done something like this before; he finds the whole concept difficult to understand.
My husband got involved with a friend of mine and that was great for everyone except her husband, who found it difficult because she developed feelings for my husband.
In the past meeting someone else might have been considered as having a mistress or a lover. The idea that we should be in love with just one person is fairly modern. Andrea, 44, London
My partner finds it a turn on when I meet other men
I have been in an open relationship for three years. I met my partner online and we had the same views on monogamy and felt a relationship shouldn’t mean that you stop meeting other people. Being in an open relationship also works because we both might occasionally have different needs sexually and want to experiment. This way we don’t stifle each other.
It also takes the pressure off a bit, so you don’t feel like you have to be everything for the person you’re with. My partner actually finds it a turn on when I meet other men. We make sure that we take care of our sexual health. Being in an open relationship has definitely improved our sex life.
The worst part of it, however, is the fact that it takes time to establish new relationships, which can be emotionally draining. Also, you can feel jealous. Oh, and people tend to judge your relationship and assume it’s not working, hence why you’re sleeping with other people.
My partner and I always talk honestly and openly about any new people we meet and where that relationship is going. We make it a point to prioritise each other no matter what. Sandra, 32, Belgium
None of my colleagues know and neither does my family
I met all my current partners online. I have a primary one, then two regular, semi-romantic partners who are a couple. I also have one sexual partner and other less regular lovers who I have more of a friendly relationship with.
I am in open relationships to liberate myself from the jealousy and over-possessiveness that has shaped past relationships. For me, love and sex do not need to be exclusive. We can love countless people equally, such as friends and family, and it’s no different with romantic partners.
The best thing about being in an open relationship is the flexibility of it and the open-mindedness, which means you don’t have to put relationships into categories. When a relationship stops potentially being long-term for whatever reason you don’t automatically have to bin it. For example, one of my partners and I came to the realisation that we want different things: he doesn’t want children whereas I desperately do. As such we are no longer suited to being life partners but we love each other and enjoy our relationship, so for now we will continue to spend time together and be a couple but slightly less attached.
The worst part of being in an open relationship is that it’s hard to be open about it. None of my colleagues know (there would be rumours and gossip), and neither does my family. I feel like I am hiding my other relationships and it makes them automatically seem less important, even though to me they are very important. I also worry about sexually transmitted infections. Amy, 25, London
Sex with my partner was amazing because we used to discuss our adventures
I have just ended a seven-year open relationship. The arrangement wasn’t what broke us up, but it was a factor. It came to a point where my partner wanted to be monogamous. I was prepared to do it but my (now) ex felt I would always resent her for it, so we ended things.
Up until that point, we had been in an open relationship. There was no set decision to enter into it, it just sort of happened. It started with kinky sex, then bringing in other people and then we started playing with others separately.
With open relationships, one person tends to be into it more than the other. In my relationship that was me. I didn’t have any insecurities and loved my girlfriend being with other men (and women for that matter). I see sex like any other hobby: I wouldn’t be jealous of her playing badminton with another man, so why should I be jealous of her having sex with one? It’s more fun than badminton after all.
In an open relationship you get to enjoy other people, and the sex with my partner was amazing because we used to discuss our adventures. We weren’t polyamorous, it was purely about sex so emotionally we were exclusive. The only rule we put in place was to make sure we were both practising safe sex.
People are generally more liberal when it comes to sex these days, so there’s less of a stigma around open relationships. I suspect the stigma and taboo is the main reason people are put off by it. They would be far more open to it if they didn’t worry what others thought. Kevin, 42, Wiltshire
Everything is in the open, without fear or lies
My partner is bisexual, so there will always be a side to her sexual needs I can’t provide and my sex drive is attuned to looking for new partners. Our arrangement allows us both to maintain a positive and trusting primary relationship (no lies if they aren’t needed) and allows us the freedom to indulge passions inside and outside of our relationship.
The best thing is that everything is in the open, without fear or lies; the downside is that you have a lot of serious talks about your relationship. We are both free to see other women outside our primary relationship, but only up to the point that it might begin affecting us as a couple.
There are less expectations of perfect monogamy among younger generations, but people still have the desire for partnership and an open relationship does away with the lies and deception that really poison a partnership. Sex is just a fun way to transfer fluids. Tom, 29, Australia
• Some names have been changed
Is BDSM/Kink a Hobby or a Sexual Orientation?
What does it reveal about you if you’re into kinky or BDSM sex? Is it a serious leisure activity, or is it an innate aspect of your sexuality? Could the answer be different for different people? A recent article published in the journal Current Sexual Health Reports grapples with these fascinating and important questions .
On the one hand, it could be argued that kink/BDSM is a form of serious leisure, one that requires a lot of time, that necessitates a certain level of skill and expertise, and that may even affect self-identification. Research has found that kink/BDSM often fits this bill and that it overlaps with a lot of the characteristics of the concept of leisure more generally.
For example, as the authors of this paper report: In a study of hundreds of BDSM practitioners, the “general properties of leisure were overwhelmingly endorsed by participants, including the following items reported being present most or nearly always by 90 percent or more of the total sample: positive emotions, a sense of freedom, pleasure and/or enjoyment, sense of adventure, stress relief and/or relaxation, self-expression, and BDSM enjoyed for itself (intrinsic motivation).”
By the same token, other research suggests that kink/BDSM can potentially be thought of as a sexual orientation. However, this depends on how you define the term sexual orientation, and different scientists think about this in different ways. Some define it in very narrow terms, looking at it specifically as something that orients us to partners based on sex or gender; however, others take a more expansive view.
For example, some argue that we have multiple sexual orientations and that the characteristics of these orientations are as follows: “(a) sexual attraction that is strong and persistent; (b) relative immutability/fluidity of sexual attraction or arousal that is beyond conscious control; (c) early onset, developmentally, in childhood or adolescence; (d) significant psychological consequences to denying, exploring, fulfilling, or repressing sexual attraction and arousal; and (e) lifelong patterns of sexual attraction and arousal” .
If you view kink/BDSM through this lens, some research does support the idea that it may be orientation. For example, research finds that the vast majority of BDSM practitioners report that their sexual interests developed relatively early in life, specifically before the age of 25. Further, a minority of these folks (7 to 12 percent across studies) report that their interests developed around the time of puberty (between ages 10 to 12), which is when other traditional aspects of sexual orientation develop (e.g., attraction based on sex or gender).
Ultimately, the authors of this paper don’t advocate for one perspective or the other, and they argue that the leisure and sexual orientation views of kink/BDSM are not mutually exclusive. In other words, perhaps both of them may be correct, meaning that kink/BDSM could be a leisure activity for some, but more of an orientation for others.
The paper is a fascinating read, because it addresses important questions raised by thinking of kink/BDSM as leisure or as an orientation. For example, what are the potential legal, therapeutic, and health care implications? There’s a lot to be gained by better understanding kink/BDSM, but we clearly need a lot more research on the subject to know whether it is best characterized as leisure, orientation, or both.
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Sex: The High-Risk Hobby for Women
Free sex seems to be happening everywhere — free that is, if the romp isn’t with a married man and leaves a text trail. But it does seem like some women are living out the lives of the characters in “Sex and the City” — trying to think like men when it comes to relationships and hooking up.
But there’s one big elephant in the living room: Most women weren’t biologically wired to hook up, and culture doesn’t trump biology when it comes to women and sex. Adopting a model of male sexuality works for some women, but only a scant few.
One reason women struggle so hard to adapt to the hookup culture is the pesky, yet magical, bonding hormone, oxytocin.
Oxytocin is the chemical that bonds parents and children and couples. Oxytocin is released in large doses during breastfeeding, pregnancy and…female orgasm.
So after women have sex with a guy, with expectations of a romantic relationship in the future or not, they’ve begun to create a bond with him on a cellular level.
This bond is critical in developing intimacy in relationships, but unfortunately, men don’t always bond through sex. They can have sex with the same woman for months and never fall in love.
Of course, they can also have fabulous, magical out-of-body experiences in bed with the woman they do love.
One study by researchers at Durham University found that women have negative feelings after casual sex experiences. And the more previous sexual partners a man has, the more likely he is to quickly perceive diminished attractiveness in a woman after first intercourse, according to researchers David Buss and Martie Haselton.
“Trying to create that bond through sex
is dangerous to a woman’s heart and body.”
Another reason women aren’t adapting to casual sex:
The risks in a sexual encounter are much higher for women.
Let’s start with any bug women could pick up (we are the ones who accept deposits after all), including the biggest bug of all — an 18-year case of parenthood.
Sigh. Despite our race for gender equality, there are still far more single mothers than single fathers. Women are the ones who end up carrying the diaper bag.
Research indicates that single mothers suffer from worse physical and mental health, while there are adverse affects on their children as well.
Then there are the run-of-the-mill bugs and the killer bugs. Sex is a high-risk hobby for women because they are most likely to walk away from a hookup with an STD.
Women are twice as likely to contract HIV through unprotected heterosexual intercourse than men, but having herpes makes this risk even higher.
Anthony Paik, a researcher at the University of Iowa, found that those who hook up are more likely to have multiple partners, making the spread of STDs even more likely.
It’s really not worth risking your health and your ability to conceive children in the future (STDs can complicate getting pregnant when the time is actually right).
It’s obvious that women have been wired to bond, but trying to create that bond through sex is dangerous to a woman’s heart and body.
If you’re looking to develop a serious relationship, your best bet is to hold off on sex until your partner is committed (this requires a verbal affirmation, not just an assumption). Your goddess-like female body and your heart will be sure to thank you.
Hey Guys, I hope you all are doing well. Today, I bring you the 16 hobbies for men that girls find most attractive. The inspiration for this post came from a thought yesterday morning. So basically I was reading an article talking about the cool list of new hobbies for men. So from there, I thought why not take on this one? I mean, sure that there is a lot of things a man can do in his free time. So let’s are real, what most guys do in their leisure time?
You will either find them masturbating or sleeping or gaming, right? Do girls find any of these attractive? Definitely not! Is any of these three things, productive? Not at all. Well, I agree that If you are completing your 8 hours of the sleeping period then you are indirectly increasing your productivity but if you are just laying around and sleeping the entire day then you are definitely not doing any good to yourself.
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What if I told you that in today’s article I have for you a list of 16 golden habits/hobbies that you can adopt to impress more girls. And no, I am not talking about just the regular attraction thing. I am talking about becoming the chick magnet. Ok, so before I reveal the list I want you to take some time out and check out my Pinterest account that I created just about a week ago. You can expect to find the latest fashion trends, men hairstyles, dressing guides/grids, and other men-style related stuff. So don’t forget to follow me on Pinterest (It’s completely free!)
One last thing! I hope you already know that all of these hobbies require you to take action. I mean, you can’t expect to just read this article and become super attractive. It happens nowhere. You need to pick, like 5 or 6 hobbies (or maybe all of them if you want to reach the pro level of attractiveness), once picked, what you gonna do is that you wanna take some time out of your daily routine and actually learn what’s required to become a pro at these hobbies.
Because nobody wants to listen to a person playing guitar who doesn’t know how to play the guitar. You can’t be an amateur if you want to impress the ladies. With that being, let’s hop into today’s topic, “16 Hobbies For Men that Girls Find Most Attractive (2020 Edition)“
1: Playing an Instrument!
I don’t care who you are but if you know how to play drums then I instantly perceive you as a more attractive candidate according to ladies. Its because I know a lot of girls and almost all of them are attracted to guys who know how to play drums and if you are a pro drummer, then my man, shake my hand because I know that a lot of girls are gonna listen to you very carefully.
A lot of men ask this question, “Brian is so ugly, why are all the girls attracted towards him. The only thing he got is his dab hand in playing drums and that shitty guitar thing”. Hold Up, Gentlemen! I am getting a strong jealousy vibe from you. But Hey! on a serious note. Brian has got the talent and on the basis of that, his hobby of playing guitar and drums, he has been able to grab her attention every single time.
You Might also wanna read:
Top 8 Reasons Women Desire A Man Who Can Play Guitar
10 REALEST REASONS WHY GIRLS ARE ATTRACTED TO A MAN WHO CAN PLAY AN INSTRUMENT
Aren’t you a fan of music and playing instruments? I am sure you are. Then why can’t you take some time out of your daily life to learn those guitar strings? Guys, trust me, it’s so easy and you don’t need to pay tons of money for that. What if I told you about a secret resource, from where you can learn to play guitar, drums and tons of other instruments for free? Its Youtube! You just need to tune in “Youtube.com” in your browser and search for something like, “Learn Guitar” or “Learn Musical instruments” and Bang! You have the list of videos, original creators, The real-life music gurus, who can teach you how to play musical instruments, 100% FREE!
So Guys, 2020 is just around the Corner. Learn To Play Musical Instruments because it is for-sure a hobby that Girls find very Attractive!
2: Staying Fit and Saving Lives
What comes in your mind when you look at a guy who is buffed, chiseled jawline, perfect chest cleavage, sexy biceps, and veins popping out from the neck, arms and legs? Please don’t be bias here. I know that you are immediately gonna think about that guy, as the most attractive/sexy person in the room, right? And girls LOVE it! Girls love a guy who takes care of himself, his body and his looks. Going to the gym or staying fit is not just a need, its a lifestyle, its a hobby! And definitely, it’s a hobby that most girls find very attractive.
The reason, I just told you earlier, it makes you look good, makes your face better looking, improves the health of your skin and hair too. Exercising makes you internally strong as well, makes you disciplined, more organized and last but not the least, gives you the opportunity to put on every freaking clothing piece you want to rock and look good in it!
Now let’s talk about the second part of it, swimming. Ok, so I want to share a story, an incident that I witnessed from my own eyes. So it happened last year actually, a friend of mine, Ali used to go to our campus gym and after that, he used to swim for about 30 minutes. One of my friend, Alisha, she was always like, “He is so hot, Nyazi. He does the gym and then swimming. Damn!” For the most obvious reasons, I know that girls find guys who know how to swim attractive because almost all swimmers are lean and fit. And we all know that girls love fit men! Some other benefits that come with this hobby are:
- It’s a whole-body workout, so it helps enhance fitness and improves strength.
- Builds cardiovascular strength.
- Great for people with some sort of disabilities or injuries.
- Improves your sleep (Indirectly improves your Skin, hair and increases your testosterone levels as well)
- It helps in managing stress.
So with a list of benefits that come with swimming, what excuse do you have for not opting for this hobby? I am sure you will not bring up your laziness as a competitor because you are not gonna find something that has so many benefits and is very cheap to pursue.
For the Reference:
Quora Discussion: Do girls actually find the swimmer’s physique attractive?
Quora Discussion: Do girls/women like muscular guys/men? Do they prefer them?
3: Hobbies Girls Find Attractive: (Cooking)
Ladies love men who know how to cook. Why? Well, it’s pretty obvious. I have written about this thing in one of my previous posts as well (22 Weird Things Girls Find Very Attractive). Do you know what girls find most attractive about this? Its that you are gonna cook them breakfast when they will be angry with you or like sometimes you know the dinner dates where man cooks food for his girl. So cute, right? Yeah, that’s what I am talking about. But unfortunately, girls don’t always want to eat eggs cooked by you. Sometimes, they want pasta or maybe her taste buds want to taste some cuisine.
And there you are. A man who doesn’t know how to cook anything except for the eggs. Now don’t come at me saying, “Hey Nyazi, Cooking is such a feminine thing to do” Hell, no! My friend. I am not gonna agree with you at this point because I’ve known some army officers as well who know how to cook. In fact, they can cook better than most of the ladies out there. Will you call Army officers, feminine? Not at all. Come on, dude, don’t judge things on the basis of masculinity. The only thing that matters is, whether if you are able to help somebody with what you are doing, or not? If yes, then go for it!
So, yeah! Learn to cook various things. There are tons of channels on Youtube where creators teach you to cook everything from hard-boiled eggs to the most complex dish ever, you name it and you are gonna find Recipe along with the most delicious method to cook that dish in seconds! Again, if you’ve got some spare time and you are looking for some cool hobby to grab then I would definitely recommend you to go for cooking because it is no doubt included in the list of hobbies that girls find very attractive!
Checkout: Top 6 Reasons Why Women Desire A Man Who Can Cook
Quora Discussion: What do women think of men who can cook?
4: Competitive Sports
Here I want to quote the example of my proofreader. My man knows how to play guitar and he is a state-level chess champion and almost all the girls in our class ask him to show them how to play chess. Trust me, my friend, girls find him very attractive just because of this single hobby that he has. My point is, girls, find sports and guys who play sports, very attractive, especially football! I don’t know but girls love men who play football. Maybe because whenever they think about football and footballers, they think about Christiano Ronaldo and Messi, etc. Well, I haven’t seen football and unattractive both together at the same time.
And not just chess and football, you could be playing any sports and you will see ladies watching you spread your sweat everywhere. You know what? People who are associated with some kind of sports, most of the time, are fit, active, patient and more challenging than other dudes. No doubt that girls love all these traits in a man. So the next time when you have 1-2 months of free time, maybe it’s an off from the semester or whatever, I recommend you to join football, basketball, cricket or rugby classes because you already know by now that girls find this hobby very attractive!
Checkout: 15 Reasons Why Women Want Men Who Play Sports
5: Hobbies Girls Find Attractive: (Travelling)
I don’t think I need to tell you that girls love adventure. You ask this question from all the girls on this whole planet and almost 95% of them will say “Yes” to it. Girls want to explore different places, they want to eat different kinds of food. They want to know more about different traditions. They always prefer dinner at some other place than their home from time to time. Because they are always looking for some sort of adventure. Well, that’s how most girls are and that’s exactly what I want you to realize because you, my friend, need to take this hobby in your daily life to win the Ultimate Chick Choice award.
What will you say to her when she will be like, “Hey Ahmed, I want to go to Naran Kaghan these winters. Please take me there :)” What will you say to her? “No, my love, You know that I don’t like traveling”. Are you gonna say that to her? Ahh, Come on! Don’t be a Pus#y now. You can definitely do better than this. Man up, Gentlemen, and develop this hobby/habit in yourself because it’s just for one person, its gonna make you more friendly, more likable and more relaxed and chilling.
And travelers are perceived to more patient and it is believed that travelers get less angry and they are more towards the accepting side of life. I mean most travelers are perceived to be open-minded and understanding. Yaaas! Girls definitely dig all of these traits in a man.
It’s all because of the movies (and that’s 100% true as well). Whenever do you see a guy who has given the role of a yoga instructor, what are the top qualities highlighted about them? It is shown that they are more flexible, simple, very calm (than most of the other men), more intelligent and understanding. They have anger management problems sorted and that’s pretty much it. Now I want you to ask any female friend of yours about this. Ask her whether she dig all these qualities in a man or not.
And I am 1005% sure that she will be like, “OMG! Yes”. So there is the answer to your question and the reason why I included yoga in the list of hobbies that girls find attractive. It’s all because of the effects yoga has on a person’s mind and overall personality. Girls are fully aware of this and for that reason whenever a guy says that he does yoga every day, she gets attracted to that guy and wants him to speak more about himself and you know other things happening in his life. Who gave this conversation a kick start? Guys, the practice of yoga every single day is a great way to kick off your 2020!
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7: Painting and Drawing
I have mentioned this in one of my previous posts as well that girls like to listen to stories. They want to get lost in someone’s story. Artists are the best storytellers! Talking about paintings, you can see plenty of artists who have drawn tremendous paintings that had a deep meaning to it, meaning so deep that any girl would love to drown in it. Now some of you might be thinking that “Drawing is a very hard thing to do. Art is not a cup of tea”.
Why? We all have a story inside. Art is just about taking that story out without exposing the owner of that story. Take that brush and start drawing and painting because I have a firm belief in you and your talent. I know that once you are determined to do anything, no matter how hard it is, you nail the shit out of it. Gentlemen! Another reason what I think, that makes the hobby of painting, so incredibly attractive near girls is that they want to see their portraits drawn.
So there is this friend of mine who can draw anybody’s face and he is quite good at it. And every time he draws someone’s face, the one whose portrait is drawn, gets super happy and if that’s a girl, she will be almost amazed to see her face drawn on the canvas. Weird, for sure, but drawing/painting is a hobby that almost every girl find super attractive.
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8: Knowing About the Vehicle
So picture this, you are out on a road with your girl and suddenly your car stops. Unfortunately, it isn’t turning on and you are so freaking exhausted right now. You don’t know what to do. And suddenly, a dude comes to you and says, “Bro, need some help?” and you are like, “For sure, man. Can you help me? my car isn’t turning on”, He goes, “Sure! I can definitely fix it”, He adds, “Man, do you have a tool kit in your car?”, You are like, “Ahh, No, I am sorry, I don’t know more about cars”, he replies, “Don’t worry buddy. I’ve got you. I have one in my car. Let me go get it”. He gets the toolkit and starts fixing your car.
And within 10 minutes, he gives you a fully working car and you are like, “Thanks, mate!” and He replies, “No problem, buddy!, Ok, So I got to go. See you someday”. Trust me, my friend, you may or may not but your girl is definitely impressed by him, his skills and his talent and his problem-solving knowledge. That person could be you as well but you don’t have time to learn about your vehicle and how to fix some general problems that might occur when you are on the road. Gentlemen! I want all of you to grab this hobby by the neck and make it a part of you because almost every girl out there finds it very attractive!
9: Knowing Multiple Languages
You know what? It’s just too boring to know just one language. You must have the knowledge of 4 languages other than your native language, Why? Because obviously it is a hobby that is gonna make you instantly more attractive according to girls. Now you all might be wondering what? “How under God’s sky does having the knowledge of multiple languages make you attractive?”
Well, the answer to this question is very simple. Girls find out men (who know multiple languages) more intelligent because Hey! It isn’t an easy task to learn a language. It requires the brain and spare time to do so. Girls do realize this, making you an intelligent candidate in her opinion.
They also perceive you as if you are more like an outgoing person who knows about the culture of the language as well along with the language itself. For instance, you have learned Spanish but originally you are an Urdu Speaker. One day you meet a Spanish senorita somewhere and you start talking to her. You know what? Chances are that she is gonna find you more attractive than Spanish men because you originally belong to some other culture. But here you are standing in front of speaking Spanish fluently which is a plus point for you. She will instantly find you more intelligent.
Last but not least, when you know some other language, girls will be interested in listening and learning from you. They will stay in contact with you to learn that language. And meanwhile, you will have more time to impress her and show her that you are the man she needs to have in her life.
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10: Reading Books
Do you love reading books, novels and fictional/love stories? If yes, then, my friend, you already have a hobby that girls find very attractive. Now obviously people who read books are perceived to be more intelligent and smart but there is a lot more to it. I have seen girls talking about men who read books. They love to call such men, “Dreamy Boys”. Well, I am talking about guys who love to read love stories, novels, and poetry. Such men are believed to love more intensely, have an emotional nature and girls like both of these traits a lot.
Plus, when they see a guy reading a book, they see a man who is poised, elegant, calm and more put together than the rest of the dudes out there. It’s just how their psychology works my friend. And I have talked about reading books in one of my previous posts as well in which I talked about how reading books and having a great amount of knowledge sets you apart from other men and makes you stand out of the crowd. And Guys, everybody wants to stand out and become the guy who every girl dreams of. So yeah, your hobby of reading books is gonna take you one step closer to your goal.
Here, I want to divide this one into two parts, #1 We are talking about self-photography and general love for being photographed. All the girls love to get photographed but there are just a few men who capture themselves on a regular basis. And out of those few percentages of guys, very few love to be captured in a really good way. I am talking about aesthetically pleasing photos like those of male bloggers you see on Instagram.
So guys if you have a liking for such a thing, if that’s your hobby then she is definitely gonna stalk your Instagram which will slowly make her fall in love with you. I am sure you want that. Coming towards, #2 We here are talking about art photography. Guys who love to take photos of nature, animals, scenery, etc. You name any aesthetically pleasing view and photography of that particular thing falls under this category. Those guys are called “photographers”.
I am not talking about doing it for money (But if you earn extra cash doing it then that isn’t bad at all, but in the first place you need to have a genuine passion for photography to tick this point), But to satisfy your inner self. Guys, trust me, girls love such men. They just want to see those clicks and say “Wow, Amazing” while looking at the photos you click. So make sure that you work on editing and learn more about the camera angles because this hobby of yours is definitely something that girls find very attractive!
12: Writing a Diary/Blog
They say casual blogging is dead but I don’t think so. Well, I will come to this point a bit later but let me cover the diary part first. So what’s all the hype about guys who write a diary. In my opinion, girls find a hobby of diary writing attractive because guys who write diaries are perceived to be more genuine and kinda alone. Yeah, it’s very hard for me to put together in the form of words but a guy who writes a diary is very similar to the guy who loves reading books as well.
These things, most of the time, are found in the same bracket. And obviously a man who writes down everything he does throughout the day is considered as more responsible, caring and accountable. He’s like somebody who you can put your trust on and girls love responsible men way too much. They don’t want any childish dude in their life. Girls prefer guys with mature men and classy dressing sense way more than a young slob. Coming towards blogging, it is not a dead art at all.
I agree that most people have moved towards commercial blogging but still its a great hobby to have. Girls love bloggers because they find them in charge. They believe that a blogger writes his thoughts, which is one of the most difficult things to do in this world. People are hiding their real selves, they don’t want to teach others and among all such rotten pieces of shit, if you are a guy whose hobby is to write great blogs then you! my friend, are definitely very attractive according to her.
13: Hobbies Girls Find Attractive: (Gardening)
What? Gardening is attractive? Yeah, Gentlemen! Gardening is super attractive. No, I am not sitting here joking with you. I have plenty of reasons to back up my point of view. Do you know why girls love guys who have a hobby of gardening? Its because not many men love to get their hands dirty to plant those seeds, Not many men wants to shed their sweat in planting a new tree which can prove very beneficial for the planet Earth, Not many men are aware of the harmful effects of pollution and the importance of planting trees to tackle the problem of global warming.
Yeah, Now you know what I am talking about, right? But wait, there is more to it. Gardeners are perceived to be more calm/ simple human beings and girls definitely realize that as well when there are choosing a dude to be her better half. Every quality counts, Gentlemen. Patience, being more loving and caring, passion for plants, vegetables, nature, flowers, and natural smell, that fresh, soothing and down to earth nature, all of these things count. These are the qualities of a gardener and if you have gardening as your hobby then I am gonna have to say that you! my friend is very attractive (according to girls)
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14: Hobbies Girls Find Attractive: (Hiking)
Hiking isn’t the hobby of wannabe teens. Only the real men have “hiking” in their list of hobbies and girls for sure find it very attractive. Why? Girls believe that if you love hiking then obviously you are a person who loves to stay outdoor, learning and trying out new things and visiting more places as well. Hikers are perceived as men who are able to handle more challenges than regular dudes. They are more strong, both internally and externally as well, have better legs (overall body as well), They have more stamina too. Why wouldn’t a girl be attracted to such a person?
It’s pretty easy to learn, Gentlemen. It isn’t much expensive as well. You will learn how to climb mountains using an old school map which is gonna stimulate your brain muscles as well, ultimately making you more intelligent as well. You become a fighter (internally), so you never give up in any kind of situation and these are the gold level traits that girls surely dig. Plus, she will love to go hiking with you and learn a thing or two from you because as I mentioned earlier as well, “Girls love adventure and trying out new things”.
15: Hobbies Girls Find Attractive: (Learning Stuff!)
Are you the kind of guy who is always seeking knowledge and learning new stuff? If yes, then I am here to tell you good news, “My friend! Ladies love you”. Yeah, my boy, I am not sitting here joking with you, I am just stating the facts. Girls Love Men who never settle down to one thing. Guys who keep on researching and learn new skills on a regular basis are considered to be more attractive than the rest of the dudes out there who are just sitting and watching random Youtube videos all day.
For the obvious reasons, guys who love to learn new and better skills are more likely to make more money as well because as they say “skills = money”. And if you have more money then you can buy her gifts and a comfortable life as well which is obviously gonna make you more attractive! Secondly, a guy who is always in the search for knowledge is considered to be more productive and a hard worker too.
Girls see him as a guy who wants to become a better version of his own self every time. That’s something girls find very attractive. Don’t need to spend tons of money to learn new stuff. You can read blogs, watch Youtube videos and listen to podcasts to obtain the knowledge of new things. It’s easy to have a hobby that girls find attractive!
16: Hobbies Girls Find Attractive: (Learn Magic!)
How many of your group members know about magic? I am sure, none. How many dudes in your class know about any magic trick? I am sure, nobody! There are just a few men who know how to do those illusions and camera/hand tricks and all the rest of the dudes out there are standing there saying “WOW, How did you do that?” Look on your left side, Billy, because your senorita is also amazed and she is probably impressed by that magician friend of yours!
Guys, there is something about magic that makes it so incredibly attractive. The first thing for sure is its rarity. Not many dudes want to learn magic. Not many dudes can perform sleight of hands so perfectly. I mean I have seen some dudes trying those card tricks but 8/10 they’ve failed and as a result, everybody laughed at them. Now that one of the reasons why most guys won’t try learning magic because they don’t have self-belief strong enough.
They think that they will not be able to do that and they don’t want others to laugh at them, so instead of trying hard and learning it. They don’t even bother giving it a try. But Hey, you know what, as I told you earlier as well, I have seen girls getting AMAZED by magicians every single time and this could be the hobby that is gonna stand you apart and make you the most attractive one among your fellow group members.
With that being said, I would like to conclude today’s topic, “16 Hobbies for Men that Girls Find Most Attractive (2020 Edition)” So what about you? Do you know some more hobbies that in your opinion, are loved by women? Great! Let me know about them in the comments down below! 👇🏻